Tuesday, 9 February 2016

Being Judge Mental.

                               A lovely story.
Having no much to write about, with much peace in mind I tend to get much comfortable forgetting I have articles to write.

Was going through some of my old stuff and found a story I once shared with a friend and thought of re-sharing. 

It's about A lovely little girl who was holding an apple in each hand.
Her mum came in and softly asked her little daughter with a smile: could you give your mum one of your two apples?

The girl looked up at her mum for some seconds, and then she suddenly took a quick bite of one apple, and quickly on the other one.

The mum felt the smile on her face freeze. She tried hard not to reveal her disappointment to the behaviors of her lovely daughter.

Then the little girl handed one of her bitten apples to her mum, and said: mummy, here you are. 

This is the sweeter one.

No matter how experienced and knowledgeable we might be. 
I feel it's always wise to delay judgment.
Give others a chance to explain themselves. 

At times, we tend to jump quickly into conclusions not being able to realize we are missing the real deal behind the whole experience. 
We tend to be blinded by our judgment and probably those involved have no way of communicating it to us.

At times, I try to imagine how hard it would have been on the mum if her daughter didn't explain why she took a bite on each of the two apples.